Over the last week or so I have noticed that I have a lot more fun engaging in discussions on here as opposed to reddit.

On reddit i always felt like i was shouting into the void and there was nobody listening, which resulted in me becoming a lurker for the last 12 years.

Maybe it’s the small size of this community, the lack of karma farmers, that I’ve finally lost my mind or a little bit of all of the above, but this place just feels like something special. I’m really looking forward to building the fediverse with all of you!

lixus98
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Same, when I posted on reddit I felt rejected, even if what I said was something unimportant, there was always someone who made you feel like you were wrong for just participating, this is much better.

Yeah Reddit had this fascination with being “right” all the timing and “owning” stupid people…

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I was never a lurker on reddit. I liked commenting, but the community feeling is much more substantial on kbin (and fediverse in general).

I find the engagement here more real than I ever did on reddit for twelve years.

lividhen
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72Y

First thing I noticed when moving to kbin is that I see what I want to see, and have only talked to people who felt like humans so far.

TurboRotary
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52Y

Exactly. On Reddit, most of the time there was not point commenting, because of the sheer size of the audience. Here, I can actually contribute!

Oofnik
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42Y

Absolutely, but I think we will have to be vigilant to keep that culture here as the place continues to grow.

CynAq
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62Y

I hope we can do that while keeping gatekeeping to a minimum.

Oofnik
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32Y

100% agreed!

Badabinski
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Same here! I upvote/boost a lot more than I did on Reddit, and my threshold for commenting is much lower than it used to be. Part of it is that I want this place to succeed, so I want to help it be more active. I absolutely agree that this community is smaller, friendlier, and less cynical than what we had on Reddit. That’s the other part, it’s really lowered my threshold of engagement.

Ethanice
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122Y

The small size and lack of content really makes me want to push things for the communities I loved to lurk on Reddit.

dismalnow
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42Y

@Ethanice

@Deralax

Nascent “scene” culture is fun.

Crazy what the ability to affect meaningful change does for the soul. Also helps that we’re sticking it to spez in the process.

McBinary
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102Y

I’ve started more posts and added more comments through kbin in a week than I did in 12 years on reddit. The community is so much smaller and comments are actually read instead of lost in the sea of shitposting.

FrostBolt
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22Y

Oh yeah - that reminds me of another thing I don’t miss about reddit: getting to a thread a few hours late and knowing your comment is unlikely to ever be seen under the pile that beat you to it

IninewCrow
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82Y

Same here … but commenting, sharing and posting Lemmy for the past few days and I just got into kbin … I’m still learning and I find it is really engaging my brain to try to figure out what is happening … on reddit I was a mindless zombie just rehashing content I had shared a hundreds times before

minnieo
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32Y

welcome to kbin!

Same here. What’s this, I can binge post AND feel good about it? Hehehe

rikaxnipah
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42Y

Yep, for sure!!

rikaxnipah
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72Y

I also am feeling this. It feels super refreshing to be here for the same reasons. I felt like when I commented on stuff I’d get ignored too.

Maeve
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32Y

I actually had a civil and decently productive conversation with a maga person.

minnieo
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72Y

this is such a wholesome post, i love it. im enjoying my time here too, really glad to see the same for others!

Saberkaze
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72Y

Likewise, I really love the more tight knit community on the fediverse, feels much more fitting for contributing

kinz
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72Y

very true

on reddit i only read

I made my own magazine here for whatever reason its quite fun

Alot of work is needed on the website but it’ll get there

ivanafterall
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72Y

It’s kind of like someone took Reddit and reinjected a little blogging and a little old internet back into it. Feels refreshing.

ShellSurf
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62Y

I feel the same and am wondering what I can post. I’ve been lurking for so long the thought of submitting anything isn’t even in my mind. Good to switch gears and shake things up, start seeing the world a little different like what can I share, not just what can I consume.

Hikyuri
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I’ve always felt kind of anxious about commenting or posting so in over 10 years on Reddit I only posted and commented a handful of times. I only joined kbin yesterday and I feel such an urge to properly engage with the community that it has made me push past my anxiety. I absolutely love it!

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I feel the same. I never tried to mod a sub on reddit but felt compelled to do so here (so I’d have a home for my otherwise newly orphaned posts).

Kaldo
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I think it’s the same for me but to be honest I mostly participated in smaller communities on reddit and here on the fediverse the communities are even smaller. If fediverse grows to the same size as reddit one day, believe me it’s going to feel like shouting into the void again. Subreddits go to shit if they get too large (and moderators aren’t strict enough), and social networks in general just get too big for meaningful discussions or interactions with people eventually. We’re just not built to handle that many different people and opinions per day and actually still see them as people to be empathized with.

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