I dont do it on purpose but the stress of life is honestly becoming overwhelming for me and it does spill over to effect my plans with my friends.
Have the decency to cancel fast, then.
Frankly, at the second time you fail an agreed time without timely warning, I’d drop you like a hot potato and go fully NC.
Asimov is so, so difficult to read through now that I’m older, as the female characters are just… ouch.
Case in point: Noys Lambent in The End of Eternity. She was added by editor mandate, and she’s hollow: a kept woman who’s secretly a perfid ally of an opposing faction. The hero is somewhat redeemed by his understanding that the rebel cause is just, but she’s pure cardboard and eye candy. 13 y.o. me loved her. Years later… She’s cringeworthy.
People invoke 2A usually lie, and the reason to arm themselves is to kill dark skinned people they don’t like.