As someone who experienced a lot of bullying in the past, I can tell you it changed me as a person and I still struggle with it to this day. While I understand where you’re coming from, my point is we should put more emphasis on what the person actually did and how it affected others. It’s easy to forgive from the outside, I just wish the people he/she hurt would see their message and their regrets

Did you also kick people for fun?

If you managed to be both, why not maintain a balance

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I guess that’s pretty close

You can’t possibly win the game