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I think it would be hard to isolate exactly how much of our daily lives we experience as a direct consequence of our IQ and how much is a consequence of other things such as personality, emotional predisposition, environment, and luck.

My IQ is pretty average (around 115 I think? I tested ages ago and I can’t even say the test was reliable). Some people insist I must be somewhat higher than that but I don’t know. I feel dumber every day.

My father though, he does have a higher IQ (I think 135 iirc) and it’s obvious to anyone that he’s a brains guy. Always top student in his youth and later a decent researcher, engineer and programmer. And yet he still makes dumb mistakes like everyone else, and his temper and personality will often turn a mediocre day into a bad one. He has a tendency to overcomplicate things unnecessarily, and sets high standards for others around him- you’d think being smarter would mean he wouldn’t do this, but as I said, intelligence doesn’t work isolated. I remember asking him how it feels like being smarter than most of his peers and his answer is always “bah!”.

So I don’t know if this answers your question, but there’s my two cents for you.


Short answer: no. You can even study two other degrees and be fine if age is your only concern.


I’m going to guess it’s from the movie Apocalypto, but I might be wrong.


Job offers

Not that I’ve seen any in ages

Otherwise… Mmm cats. Cats are good



I am also a hater of unnecessarily bright lights. In your shoes, presuming I’m happy with the product otherwise, I would paint over it with a bit of nail polish.

You can get polish in any color you want these days, and it’s very cheap. It dries fast and it comes with a very small brush. You can apply one coat, see if the led still shines through too much, apply another coat 15mins later once the first layer is dry. Repeat.

Edit: seeing the photo I realize the shape it has. Be careful with the polish if you use it, one coat or two probably will be okay on the inner surface but don’t add more or the button may get stuck. Also wait extra before even daring to test button functionality, you don’t want the button scraping off semi dry polish.


Everyone here saying “undersalt, undersalt” like salt is the only additive that can go wrong in excess. Pretty much any spice is, too, so don’t go crazy on any of them especially pepper, chili, anything “hot”.



That looks amazing, why do you say something like that would be average Joe’s nightmare? LOL TIL trailer isn’t at all like a campervan and I’m really confused now haha


I presume you are in the US. Out of curiosity - how does bathroom work with trailer life? Do you have a shower and toilet in the trailer or do you go somewhere else for that? I’m a complete stranger to trailer life, I suppose it’s just like camping but perhaps over there you have some differences when it’s a permanent full time lifestyle. I don’t know


The userbase. I don’t care much for anything else on your list, I think things as they are aren’t perfect but I’m ok with it as is. Reddit is the same or worse. But the userbase is different. Less trolls, more tech savvy people, more FOSS. Overall better answers, except on certain niche areas.

Also it’s less invasive visually and mentally. Reddit is riddled with ads and links to other posts very much like YouTube has suggested videos on the side. I don’t need this information overload. Annoying. I used to be able to control it using Boost for reddit but hey, guess what.

And if I really need to go to Reddit, I do. Nothing stops me from lurking if I want. Occasionally I use it, I think over the last 2 years I’ve posted like five times on Reddit.

I like being able to choose what I want when I want it.


Okay I would ask questions for any amount of money unless they tell me first. The people I feel I would easily give money are also the same people who I’d expect they tell me first why- they wouldn’t be “hey mothra got some spare 100s?”

To answer your question, I would easily give 10 to about a dozen people or so, 100 to half of them and 1k+ to only 3, and for a very good reason only. I didn’t even realize the number of people would halve.


Never. I can’t stand the crowds and the loud music. And I don’t appreciate the crowds singing and screaming on top of the music either. I’ve been to concerts like two times in my life just because others insisted so much I joined them, and the experience was exactly what I thought it would be.

I’m just not cut for them.

I don’t think I bought band related merch ever, but I’ve seen some really cool stuff so that is something I would consider if the opportunity presented itself.


Productivity is when you do the stuff you need to do. If you can do even more in advance, you are more productive.


Nit sure if pasta or roast chicken with roast pumpkin. There were leftovers for both but I forgot in which order I had them


Are you asking about beliefs regarding authority, or beliefs we know to be absolutely arbitrary with no evidence to back up?

Or what do you mean if neither of these?


Yeah it’s just extortion. They know you can’t go anywhere so they set those ridiculous prices and get away with it



I don’t have a specific time or mood other than being in the mood to listen to that particular composer. Anyways, my choices are Tchaikovsky, Prokofiev, Sibelius and Beethoven. I also find the director makes a huge difference in my enjoyment, just any version won’t do.


Depends on the type of job. In my industry you’d be lucky to find more than 10 job openings in the whole country per month. You bet you want to tailor the everything out of the resume and cover letters.

For basic jobs like retail, you can apply with AI written slop and nobody will notice. All they need to know is your availability.


Sources to improve my eloquence/ cover letters? (In English)
I'm not too bad at casual writing but when it comes to sales, especially to sell my skills, I keep feeling like I lack a certain grace or flair with words. Chat gpt can help with suggestions but I always find anything I write with its assistance feels, well, robotic in a way. Awkward. So I'm reaching out to you for your inspirational word material out there. English isn't my native language so I'm hoping to improve it further with your suggestions. Authors? Websites? Perhaps eloquent YT creators I can learn from transcribing what they say? Thanks
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Can you recommend contemporary music artists without lyrics?
Keyword *artist* , or band/group name. I'm not looking for a genre, I want to search artists. Tell me about someone *you like listening to*. Would appreciate if it's Not symphonic/orchestral movie/videogame OST. I know there is a lot of really good music in this category but I'm trying to avoid recommendations like Hans Zimmerman or Jeremy Soule or Enya etc., since they are either really well known or fall into the orchestral and/or "epic music score" I'm not looking for. It's OK if some tracks have vocals or even some lyrics/voice samples but I prefer to keep them at a minimum. Any suggestions? TIA
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Edit: I've found a method to improve this, I'll edit the post below. Photo attached! I made a mistake, and bought a bag of muesli thinking it was cereal clusters. There is nobody else to blame other than my stupidity. I don't think I know how to eat this thing. It's practically rolled oats with bits of fruit and nuts and *all bran* kind of cereals added in the mix but hardly noticeable. I tried eating it like cereal, adding it to yoghurt or milk. It tastes like insipid cardboard flakes sprinkled with fruit. I tried cooking porridge with it, that was an improvement but I still find it boring. Perhaps you have some suggestions on how to actually enjoy eating what's left of it? Bonus points if you know how to make it crunchy. Thanks Edit: I don't typically add sugar to things or even buy sugary cereal. My problem with this thing is the texture first and foremost. Thanks for your concern on how much processed foods I don't buy or like are harming my life. Edit 2: Tried the overnight method, it's better than porridge as the consistency is much firmer and less slimey. Plus, it's cold already. Toasting or baking on a tray makes it so much better and crispy, it doesn't feel chewing cardboard anymore. Finally I tried making clusters and this is the best method for me. Just let the muesli soak a few hours in water until it takes a semisolid consistency. I spread the paste in blotches on a tray, and baked for around an hour at low heat. These clusters are very crunchy! Photo shows the round container with the muesli straight out of the bag vs the toasted and clustered versions I made in the other container.
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Have you ever apologized to someone you wronged for a very long time, or received an unexpected apology in a similar way?
Such a long title. Basically I'm wondering if this happens IRL, and how. I've heard countless stories of people who hold a grudge against family members /ex partners/ ex friends/ neighbours etc. for years, and they do horrible things to each other. Or maybe just the cold shoulder can be rough especially for such a long time. But not so many stories of people in these situations who suddenly talk things out *unexpectedly*, out of their own will and not because they kept getting nagged about whatever happened. I've also heard about people who screw up big once, never acknowledge or apologize, then everyone puts the episode behind and moves on. But I've never heard about suddenly this person perhaps decades afterwards just actually addressing their screw up and apologizing. So, have you ever received one of these big, unexpected apologies? Or have you ever apologized for something you did you never thought you would want or dare to apologize for?
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can you recommend me anime to watch?
edit: feel free to reply no matter how old this thread gets! I'm not particularly into anime, I like it just as much as live action shows or other types of animation. Having said that, I feel like watching some and I'm not sure what to pick. Here's a list of other anime shows I've watched/manga and novels I've read, so you can better judge what to recommend. ( would greatly appreciate the story to be completed, I hate waiting years for closure) : Full Metal Alchemist, Naruto : both great stories, I've read the mangas and loved them. They wouldn't be a priority to watch because I already read them. Attack on Titan: started with the anime, it was great, switched to the manga, got extremely disappointed with the story development and its ending. It felt a bit like nonsense for me. Dragon Ball/Z : probably my favourite, I've rewatched it recently. I don't like GT and Super. Overlord: I've read good part of the novel and manga. I'm liking it so far JoJo's Bizarre Adventure: please No thanks. Not for me. Death Note: loved the first arc, not a fan of the ending but no hate for it unlike with AOT. I also recall Escaflowne and Inuyasha, they were alright but not something I've loved or hated. Cowboy Bebop also in this category, excellent visually and great OST but the story wasn't as gripping. Other than that... Feel free to suggest any other titles! Extra thanks if you are specific about any versions and why is the show so great. TIA
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