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Cake day: Jun 14, 2023

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You may be right, I just felt the strong need to defend my reasoning. I’m just trying to learn and I’m reading every comment and considering my response and even went back and changed some of my statements that looking back are dumb.


I thought I was in a hexbear thread but I kept getting buzzwords thrown at me. It’s awfully jarring and did not help with me understanding the situation. I know it’s not an excuse but sometimes my autism makes it hard for me to see the proper path through the conversation.


Uhh, I’m trying to apologize and grow from this, I’m explaining my position and where the statement came from, not justifying it. I needed you to know where I came and I wanted to know where you came from so we could reach an understanding. I can’t block instances in voyager. At least I tried.



Gimme 10 minutes, and yeah you put things in terms I could understand.


I showed you where in the game he said it, and didn’t change anything I said though, not counting editing my original comment. I’m willing to no longer use the phrase I just couldn’t stand you jumping on me with buzzwords and accusations. I do try to be a decent human, but I’m just some internet stranger to you. I was genuinely confused wanted help understanding it and you just dogpiled me.


I’ll chock this up to ignorance then. I will be adding that to my list of things not to say.


I can’t with my app on mobile(unless it’s a recent)☠️ I’ve just been manually blocking each community as I see them. Being wrong is not the same as lying.


You’re right and I understand that now but maybe because I compartmentalized it differently in my head as different from “ooga booga” which is highly racist. Thanks for actually explaining it to me. Language is weird.




That’s crazy, does he have a friend named wedge.


Yeah I saw that but only after I added terms like racist and offensive to my search result, meaning if I just type that phrase by itself into Google nothing. I also don’t watch any of that shit because it’s like you said, horseshit.

I will not use the phrase in the future though.



Is there anything good in Hexbear?
The few conversations I've had there have been unproductive and inflammatory. While even in other instances when I've said something someone disagreed with they would at least support their statement. Also no one would tell me why the "Confused Unga Bunga" meme is racist but they keep accusing me of it. I'm all for open discussions but even the comments there are so angry and toxic. Edit: I'm reading every comment and taking everything people said and considering all sides. My stance on the phrase has changed but I am still hesitant about giving hexbear a chance. I'll sleep on it though.
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True but then that’s where personal philosophy comes in. Doing nothing is still an action to me especially if I was aware. It’s rather be responsible for one death rather then several.


I have a job that doesn’t make me happy and a wife who even though she’s great has a lot of health issues that cause me to take on more stress. She’s trying to get the health problems figured out butt it’s been a half dozen trips to the doctor and we still don’t know why she just passes out.

I need to do more stuff outside the house but I don’t know where to start. I like dnd but the idea of finding a group terrifies me, even if online.


Am I the only one who finds AI generated porn odd
Since coming to lemmy I will browse all vs local and top by day. There is a solid amount of AI generated porn that has many votes in a 24 hour period. To me the whole vibe is plastic tits and "smooth" skin. It looks off even when done well and all the faces look the same. Is anything it's more a technical feat than what helps me beat my meat. Also it's nearly all white women or pale Asians.
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