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Lemmy.
I admin a lemmy instance, so I have less time now than I did when I used Reddit
Ditto, though the maintenance has really gone down since the early days of the migration. Now I basically just restart the docker container twice a week to bandaid Lemmy’s memory leak and that’s it.
I don’t have a large enough userbase to really worry about super active moderation so it’s really not bad now.
I am using your instance btw! Thank you for hosting!!!
My yard looks nicer. My dog gets 2-3 walks a day instead of 1-2. Also porn.
What porn does he like?
Doggy and zoophilia
I started a band. 🤷♂️ 🎸
What genre?
Rubber
Grunge/melodic noise
Why, I spent it maintaining my Lemmy instance of course.
Blocking communities in Lemmy, since Memmy’s instance blocking option is still fucked up. I’m talking about you fanaticus and yiff.
For real? Taking care of my mental health. I was in a very bad spot of my life earlier this year. I lost my best friend who also happened to be my business partner, he died in March.
It was a shock, we both founded a small NPO together, he was behind all the strategy, I was more into communication. We thought he would recover from his cancer, but he caught covid while his immune system was at its weakest. He lost that battle.
I immediately tried to find my next professional step, insisting that I had to find a way to promote social economy locally, as that’s what we wanted to do together.
All this pressure on myself by myself, plus the state of the world, neverending flow of bad news, me losing faith in mostly everything and becoming extra cynical, I ended up flirting with a major burnout.
Fortunately, I asked for help when it was still time to act, and the reddit api scandal happened at about the same time. Leaving reddit was one of the first step towards recovery. All the subreddits were basically optimized for doomscrolling, which was super toxic for the state of mind I was in.
I just started to use lemmy last week since I found that Sync for Lemmy was available. And I only subscribed to things that aren’t too toxic. I’m now on medication to avoid depression. It’s been 3 weeks and it’s already much better.
I don’t think I’ll be browsing Lemmy as much as I was browsing reddit.
I’m sorry about your friend, and I’m glad you’re finding a way to deal with the grief and the shock. It never goes away, but you learn to manage it, and you learn how to live with it, and that makes it easier eventually. You’ll navigate your way through this, I’m sure.
I’m sorry to hear about your loss. Losing a close friend is awful, especially when it’s stacked on top of other things.
Is this a real question?
I spent 3 hours on Lemmy yesterday.
BG3
I wonder how many new dnd players will there be because of baldur’s gate. it’s a shame that you can’t really track that
I’ve wanted to try DnD for a while so this is a nice way to test it out. Now I need to try and find a group and align schedules uggghh.
as if the first part wasn’t hard enough getting a time where everyone can play is next to impossible, good luck on your mission o7
All my Reddit time was diverted to here, lol
Browsing Lemmy and kbin. There’s lots of interesting stuff when you sort by new. Today’s unexpected find was banjo music with duck sounds.
Once in a while, I try my hand at translating.
Lemmy, duh.
But also more reading and doing sudokus
I started using Lemmy… That’s why I’m here
BG3
Now I check both Lemmy and (although less than before) Reddit, so I have even less free time