There are only two subreddits I’m checking right now. One will be defunct when reddit shuts down that app. The other is a gaming subreddit where I’m not going to get the kind of discourse here that is there (yet). I can use their forums but…I like simplicity these days and having everything in one place is just easier.
My sister and I had that problem when she started playing. What you have to do is group up and use the wayshrine to travel to them. Even if you’re in the same zone, travel away and travel back and then you should be able to see each other. Hope that helps!
The game is a lot better than when it first came out. Hope you’re able to try it again. Yhere are also reshaders that you can install to make your game look prettier. Give me a holler if you need help!